Why Did I Get Married?

I know it's been a minute since I wrote a piece but a sister has been straight GRINDING!!!!! While on a rare break, I came across an interesting article in regards to what makes mistresses so successful. After reading the title "Successful Mistresses Do What Wives Won't", I automatically clicked on the link. While reading the article, a sudden anger flashed over me. I wasn't mad at the mistresses nor was I mad at the husbands. I was mad at the wives. This article outlined the reasons why the mistress was successful. Things such as cooking, wearing nice panties, giving oral sex, buying your man a gift, giving up the cheeks, investing in their appearance, etc. WTH!?! Really wives? Your man is getting validation from another bitch!? Say it ain't so.

Now, I know some men cheat for the sake of cheating but if your man is cheating because you are intentionally pushing him out of the house then you have no reason to be mad. Yeah you took vows to honor, respect, and obey but there are other things that go into a marriage other than wearing your man's last name. The same sh*t you did to get him then you need to work 20 times harder to keep him. The predators are always out especially when you have a good man at home. Hit the gym, invest in some cute panties, give up the goods more, cook a meal or at least try to cook, and most important learn when to SHUT THE F*CK UP!!!! You know the same feeling you get when you hear the office bitch talk, multiply that feeling by 10000. That is how your man feel when you start nagging and whining. No, I have never been married but it's a damn shame when folks who are married inspired articles like the one I just read.

Let me hip you to what's really good. There are some females out here who don't give a damn about you or your vows. If they sense any crack in your foundation, they will go in for the kill. They are cunning, manipulative, immoral and just don't give a f*ck. Then there are the ones that are cool with having a part time lover. To them, having the man without having the commitment is a piece of cake. They will give your man the three P's: Pussy, Pleasure and Peace without blinking.

I encourage you ladies to be quick to listen and slow to speak. Stop playing pussy games. Cook a meal every now and then. Rock the mic once or twice a week. Buy your man something. Fellas, you are not off the hook either. If you see signs that your chick is a selfish bitch then you need to head for the hills. Or at least talk to her instead of shutting down and not saying a word. Both of you need to be clear about what you want instead of jumping head first into a situation or allowing her to do whatever she wants to do then try to pull rank. Chile boo! Leave the games to the kiddies and grow the hell up.