Sinsational Spotlight: Alisha Pean

I always try to support business owners especially my sisters. It is hard out here in this world trying to start, promote and establish a business while raising kids, studying for exams and dealing with everyday struggles but this young lady seems to do it with ease. Her name is Alisha Pean owner and operator of Domestic Diva Designs. I met Alisha the Diva thru a self help class called GYIT (Get Your Ish Together) and we became fast friends. Her designs are cute and original. I admire her strength and business savvy. So, I am going to let Alisha take it from.....



Age: 25 years old
Hometown: Newark, NJ
Profession: Owner, designer, buyer for Domestic Diva Designs
Services: Handmade fashion jewelry, custom designs, wholesale services, jewelry parties, jewelry repair, bridal jewelry

I started Domestic Diva Designs for working class women who have several roles but always make sure they look fab. I am a 25 yr old single mother of three, a student, business owner, obesity awareness activist and a slew of other things! While juggling so many hats, I am sure that no matter what I am doing I am presenting myself to the world in a manner that reflects my dominant role as a DIVA. Domestic Diva Designs has a variety of styles to meet all your needs whether it be fun, flirty, casual, evening, daring or sophisticated. I offer custom made pieces designed for Divas just like you. It is my job to keep other women like me looking fabulous....One less thing you have to worry about!



I couldn't agree with her more. Please visit Ms Alisha at http://www.domesticdivas2010.com.

Why Did I Get Married?

I know it's been a minute since I wrote a piece but a sister has been straight GRINDING!!!!! While on a rare break, I came across an interesting article in regards to what makes mistresses so successful. After reading the title "Successful Mistresses Do What Wives Won't", I automatically clicked on the link. While reading the article, a sudden anger flashed over me. I wasn't mad at the mistresses nor was I mad at the husbands. I was mad at the wives. This article outlined the reasons why the mistress was successful. Things such as cooking, wearing nice panties, giving oral sex, buying your man a gift, giving up the cheeks, investing in their appearance, etc. WTH!?! Really wives? Your man is getting validation from another bitch!? Say it ain't so.

Now, I know some men cheat for the sake of cheating but if your man is cheating because you are intentionally pushing him out of the house then you have no reason to be mad. Yeah you took vows to honor, respect, and obey but there are other things that go into a marriage other than wearing your man's last name. The same sh*t you did to get him then you need to work 20 times harder to keep him. The predators are always out especially when you have a good man at home. Hit the gym, invest in some cute panties, give up the goods more, cook a meal or at least try to cook, and most important learn when to SHUT THE F*CK UP!!!! You know the same feeling you get when you hear the office bitch talk, multiply that feeling by 10000. That is how your man feel when you start nagging and whining. No, I have never been married but it's a damn shame when folks who are married inspired articles like the one I just read.

Let me hip you to what's really good. There are some females out here who don't give a damn about you or your vows. If they sense any crack in your foundation, they will go in for the kill. They are cunning, manipulative, immoral and just don't give a f*ck. Then there are the ones that are cool with having a part time lover. To them, having the man without having the commitment is a piece of cake. They will give your man the three P's: Pussy, Pleasure and Peace without blinking.

I encourage you ladies to be quick to listen and slow to speak. Stop playing pussy games. Cook a meal every now and then. Rock the mic once or twice a week. Buy your man something. Fellas, you are not off the hook either. If you see signs that your chick is a selfish bitch then you need to head for the hills. Or at least talk to her instead of shutting down and not saying a word. Both of you need to be clear about what you want instead of jumping head first into a situation or allowing her to do whatever she wants to do then try to pull rank. Chile boo! Leave the games to the kiddies and grow the hell up.